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Encouraging a Struggling Learner- (Part One)

Doggie boy riding a horse

Doggie boy riding a horse

A Struggling Learner

– A child which takes a longer time and
effort to learn as compared to   their peers.

Doggie boy  has been a late developer as compared to his elder brother.   It takes him quite a long time to process  certain information and  has difficulties transferring information learned in one situation to another situation.

Application of concepts doesn’t come as naturally for him and he needs to be shown step by step ( and sometime repeatedly) before he is able to understand what is being taught.

Doggie boys way of processing information is very different from his elder brother. He is more visual and tactile  while Monkey boy is able to understand perfectly well by just having text or verbal instructions.  You can say that he is a more “hands on ” person and needs to be able to physically internalize any instruction before taking action on it.

He gets frustrated rather easily and have been having problems expressing himself clearly to others.  He can get lost if the instructions are too lengthy or if they come in multiple steps.

Even though he is hardworking and willing to try he has difficult retaining the information taught.   Previously I have tried  building up his Auditory skills by focusing on the tips suggested by Thinkerbox when we went for an assessment last year. I have been trying audio books with him but it didn’t really seem to work.

Intently listening and focusing on certain key items while listening is not something that is easy for Doggie boy.  Although there is a wide selection of Audio books within the library many of them are rather lengthy and I feel that it makes it more difficult to train his listening skills using this audio tool.

Doggie boy might be better of reading the passage or article aloud and listen to his own voice as the  listening to the audio books were not helping him.

It is not that he is unwilling to learn but he simply can’t and it has been frustrating both him and me.

In the next part of this post I will be sharing the what I have been doing with Doggie boy to improve on his memory and learning ability.

 

Post in this series

– Parenting with Less Stress ( An Introduction)

– Teaching Kids about coping with the fear of Failure (Part 1)

– Teaching Kids about coping with the fear of Failure (Part 2)

– Encouraging a Struggling Learner (Part 1)

– Encouraging a Struggling Learner (Part 2)

-Dealing with a Strong Willed Child (Part 1)

– Dealing with a Strong Willed Child( Part 2)

– An Update on Monkey Boy

An Update on Doggie boy

We’ll Always Have Paris by Jennifer Coburn

Bookcover

Bookcover

We’ll Always Have Paris: A Mother/Daughter Memoir  is written by Jennifer Coburn.  The book documents Jennifer’s  summers travel to the various countries in Europe from the time her daughter Katie was eight.

2005 was the year that Jennifer and Katie went off on their traveling adventures.  They  visited  Paris and London the cities that Jennifer always wanted to visit since she was a little girl.

Jennifer  wanted to retrace the steps that her Dad took as a musician who lived in Europe and  create many memorable Mother and Daughter bonding moments with Katie by visiting the places together with her.

Traveling with her daughter has always been on Jennifer’s mind. It was something which she gave high priority to  compared to fixing up the house which was falling to pieces.  Since her dad died of lung cancer she felt all the more important it was to give her child good and memorable memories of them together for her to remember  her by and also at the same time remember the memories she had with her dad as a child.

Jennifer was very hesitant and afraid that she would not be able to be  a good guide and traveling partner for Katie as she could not speak French and it was her first trip to France itself.  She had to tackle jet lag and being foreigners in a foreign land without any assistance. It was mind boggling but she managed to survive the trip and visited the places of interest that she had planned on her itenary  without too many hiccups on the way.

Since that uneventful trip Jennifer and Katie have had 3 subsequent Mother and Daughter bonding trips to Italy, Spain and Amsterdam and Paris.

My thoughts

I really enjoyed reading about Jennifer’s honest account about her travels in Europe. I too will have similar reservations if I was traveling alone with my kids in a foreign country and could not speak the local language.

Jennifer brings the reader from the modern day back to the past by interjecting the daily struggles she had on holiday with memories that she has of her dad.

I do hope to be able to travel with my kids one on one in the future and have such Mother and Daughter bonding traveling opportunities with my 3 kids.

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