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August 31, 2012

Weekend Reflection: Deciphering Language Preferences

Dominique Parenting and Kids, Parenting Views, Weekend Reflections Multilingual, Parenting

Tiger girl

Raising our kids to be multilingual has been my aim since they were born. Being an educator I know the importance of introducing them to languages from birth. We have been introducing English, Mandarin and Cantonese to the kids as both of us speak them fluently. It’s not enough to know just English and Mandarin as being bilingual is the norm here in Singapore. We want our kids to know more about their culture and heritage and thus the importance to know their own dialect- Cantonese.

It is our aim to get them speaking all 3 languages fluently too before learning other languages like French and Japanese to make them more competitive in the global market once they graduate from school.

I have been using the same method of teaching languages to the kids since Monkey boy was born. They are introduced to all three languages simultaneously through speech, media and other teaching resources.

It is interesting to know that all three of them have different preference to their chosen language for speech. Clarity in pronunciation in different languages also varies from child to child. The kids speak more English at home as compared to Mandarin and Cantonese as most people around us speak English. However it’s fascinating to know that Monkey boy speaks more clearly in English, Doggie boy in Mandarin and Tiger girl in Cantonese.

I have been teaching Tiger girl to count from 1-10 in all 3 languages and surprisingly she is able to say 1-10 in Cantonese the most accurately and without any prompting. It seems that she has more incline to speaking in Cantonese rather then English or Mandarin. She switch effortlessly between the three languages when spoken to and is able to reply in the correct language. She laps into English when she is unable to find the correct word to use in Mandarin or Cantonese like her brothers do.

I hope that all the kids will be equally eloquent in all 3 languages and more in time to come.

Do your kids have a preference for one language over another?

August 30, 2012

Writer’s Workshop:Only for Mummy

Dominique Parenting and Kids, Parenting Views, Thoughts alpha thursday, mama kat's writers workshop, Motherhood

Tiger girl doing art

As a parent we wish to educate our child to the best of our abilities. We wish to teach them everything that we can possibly teach so that they will be well equipped with the correct tools to deal with whatever problems and obstacles that life may throw their way. We want our babies to be able to be self reliant and independent when they grow up to be young adults.

Through educating our kids we impart the values and wisdom that were installed into us from our own parents and ancestors. However little do we realize that it’s our kids that are the one who give us the best lessons in life on parenting.

It’s not about the abundance of knowledge or multitude of skills which one needs to have to survive but learning how to be at peace with yourself.

It’s amazing how much your child can teach you even at their tender age. Lessons about patience, enjoying life, taking things slow and doing it one step at a time. Forgiveness and acceptance that we are not perfect but doing the best we can.

Unconditional love and having an open heart and mind. Many of these lessons which we may have forgotten as we grew up.

It’s not just about who you are as a parent but how you have impacted the life of your child as they have places their impact on yours.