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Preparation for Primary One- Doggie Boy Style (Mental Preparations)

Primary 1 series 2012

This weekend marks a new milestone for Doggie boy as it is P1 orientation for him. It will be his first formal introduction to the Primary school which he will be going to from 2013. It will be a new learning environment for him as he enters the same school that his elder brother is currently studying in.

doggie boyDoggie boy character is slightly different from Monkey boy. He is not as outspoken and forthcoming as his elder brother. Being more shy and reserved in nature it has been quite difficult getting him to open up and speak up.

It takes him a longer time to process new information and there is need for more revision on the same topic for him to be able to register what is being taught to him.   Doggie boy needs more one on one focus as compared to his brother and more breaks in between study sessions.

Regarding academic development

I have tried a few different methods with him and found that he relates better to visual stimulation as compared to just pen and paper talk.  Taking into consideration his attention span we came up with a schedule which was agreeable for the both of us.

 

  After school Weekend
Down time TV/ Playtime (1/2 hr) TV/Playtime (1 hr)
Dinner  Max 1 hr Max 1 hr
Piano Practice 30 min 30 min
Academic revision Eng/Maths/Chinese
(1.5 hr max)
Eng/Maths/Chinese(2hr max)
Reading Eng/Chinese
(1hr max)
Eng/Chinese
(1hr min)
Bible reading

30 min

I do not specify that we need to cover all these items per day but the bulk of it. I believe in frequent revision and having a set schedule will make it easier for Doggie boy to adjust to the new study/ play timetable that he would be having next year.

He gets to choose which activity he would like to do first. The only requirement is that he completes the assigned work before bedtime.  I try to cover all  three subjects with him during the weekdays however sometimes time doesn’t permit or he is too tired for the day  we will cover less.

I do a combination of direct and incidental learning with him using a variety of teaching materials. Kids at this age are unable to sit still for long period of time and require different mediums to keep them stimulated.

We go through a selection of activity books, assessment books, flash cards, game sets, online educational programs, iPad Apps and hands on learning each week. I also infuse learning into the everyday chores which he does around the house.

For example, while hanging up the clothes I may ask him to describe the particular shirt that we are placing up onto the laundry poles in both English and Mandarin.  I may also throw in a simple mathematical question for him in the mix on certain occasions to get his mind thinking on the go.

 

Regarding social development

Doggie boy does have play dates with other kids outside school. This gives him chance to interact with more kids in a range of ages and  learn to be able to relate to different personalities.

While outside with Doggie boy I do let him order food, interact with the waiters and pay for our groceries. This gives him the chance to experience  handling cash and interacting with other adults. It also gives him a chance to build up his confidence.  It is also indirectly preparing him for show and tell which he would be facing next year.

How do you reinforce learning at home and while outside?

 

In the next installment I will be touching on the physical preparations I am doing with Doggie boy.

 

Previous posts in this series

The introduction

 

 

Weekend Reflections: Setting and Achieving Goals

Monkey boy

Next week is the end of the school term for Monkey boy. Besides marking the end of his academic year as a Primary 2 student it is also time to review his academic achievements for the year.

On Friday it will be a new milestone for him as he will be standing on stage to accept his award for outstanding academic performance this year. We are very proud of him for coming in 3rd in standard and best in English.  It will certainly be the highlight of the month to see my 1st born on stage getting his award from the principal.  All the hard work that he has put in and me coaching him has paid off.

At the begining of the year Monkey boy sat down with us to set  his academic goals for the year. He has been wanting for us to buy him a skateboard as he has dreamt about owning his own skateboard to move around. We felt that he should work hard and earn his right to owning a skateboard. He shouldn’t be given things that he desire so easily and should be taught to work for it.

With the chance of owning the skateboard as the main incentive we decided on what grade that he should achieve for this present to be bought for him. The goals that we set had to be something that he had to work for to obtain. It shouldn’t be too easily obtainable or beyond his ability.

Monkey boy has always been quite strong academically so we decided to set the goal at being in the top 5 % of the class and also achieve a Distincition for his Grade 2 Piano examination.

I wasn’t that sure if he would be able to get a  Distinction for Piano and reach the goals which we set as he hasn’t been really consistent in his performance in school this year. It was a pleasant surprise that he managed to achieve  even better then the goals we have set.

Well done boy.. it’s time to go skateboard shopping 🙂
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