Raising a Multilingual Toddler

My Toddler Girl

One, two , three or more languages? How do you expect your child to understand them all? Won’t the kid get confused?  I get puzzle looks whenever they hear me speaking to my kids as I can be speaking to them in English one moment then we may switch to Mandarin or Cantonese the next.  Believe me. My kids can understand me perfectly well be it speaking to them in whatever language I choose.

Teaching has always been my passion. Being an elementary school teacher I know how important it is for a child to get a head start in literacy.  Introduction to languages should be done as early as possible so that the child grows up surrounded by language making it easier for them to absorb.

For my three kids I have been introducing them to English, Mandarin and (spoken) Cantonese from birth as I want them to be able to know more about their mother tongue and Chinese heritage.   I believe that there is no right/wrong time to introduce a 2nd or 3rd language or even a fourth to a child. We do not practice a one person one language policy at home as everyone , including the extended family, is able to understand all 3 or even more languages. However at the moment I will limit it to 3 main languages and brief introductions to other languages that we come across.

Reading Materials

Living in Asia it is quite easy to get books which are both English and Mandarin. This is one of the books which I read to my 17 month old regularly. It as both pictures and the labels in both English and mandarin on it. Each time I go through the book I read both the English and Mandarin word associate with the fruit and try to get her to read out after me.

I go through the book this way.

  1.  Flipping through the book with her and focusing on the pictures while naming the fruits.
  2. Reading through the book in English, then Mandarin then Cantonese.
  3. Going through each page in all 3 languages.

Tiger girl at present is able to identify most of the fruits featured in that book. She is also able to call out apple and banana in both English and Mandarin. Even when we ask her to get the fruit in Cantonese she is able to follow the instructions given. She is able to differentiate between the 3 languages and answer accordingly.

I’m starting through word/picture recognition then gradually proceed to formation of simple sentences in the various  languages as she gets older.

Besides reading books to her we also play CDs in the different languages for her to listen to. At the moment she is in love with Korean Pop like her brothers. Even though none of them understand the meaning of the song in Korean but they like the tunes and beats. The kids are also more receptive to the Korean culture and traditions since being introduced to the language.

I belief in  laying a strong foundation in language  and giving a child a wide enough platform would prepare .

Are you raising a multilingual toddler too?

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Weight lost

Losing the baby fat and getting back into shape has always been on my mind since the birth of my #3- Tiger Girl in September 2010. I had  started gaining weight before I was pregnant with her and throughout the pregnancy had put on about 15 kg. My weight ballooned up to 85kg before delivery and I was at my heaviest ever.

I had managed to get back to my ideal weight by the time my #2 boy was 2 yrs old and I intended to do the same now after the birth of my #3. However this time around it has been harder for me to lose the weight as I’m five years older since the birth of Monkey boy and  I guess that energy and stamina is lesser with more things to handle with 3 kids instead of two.

I started on my dieting/ exercise routine right after confinement. Initially it the weight fell off easily even though I wasn’t doing much exercise as I was still adjusting to the new routine being a mom of three. After the initial 10kg lost which I managed in 3 months my weight started to plateau.

I was getting rather frustrated and even considered whether I should have a Lap Band Surgery as I have heard that it has worked wonders for people who had undergone such a treatment. However after careful consideration and taking into mind that I would be exclusively  breastfeeding my girl it wouldn’t be advisable at this stage in time.

I did a lot of reading and started working on a plan to get back to my ideal weight of 55kg.  My aim is to fit back into my wedding dress and be able to take pictures with my kids wearing it for our 11th Wedding Anniversary this June. I’m still about 6kg short of this target but the inches have started reducing after I started doing the following.

  1. Climbing up stairs instead of taking the lift.
  2. Controlling my portion intake.
  3. Increasing vegetables in my diet and reducing the meats.
  4. Exercise and work out using WII Active or Zumba 3-4 times a week.
  5. Having a positive mindset and be focused on reaching my targeted goals.

It has taken me 17 months and my weight has plateau a few times but I’m happy that I have managed to lose 24 kgs to date and can fit back into all my old pre kid clothes.

What have you done to keep healthy and lose weight?

 

 

 

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