SOC: Spending time with the Kids
Even though there was time spend with the kids together I felt that it was necessary that we spend time one on one with the kids as I can see that all three of them are craving our personalized attention. I don’t want them to grow up being bitter with their siblings as they didn’t get special time with mummy or daddy when they are young.
I feel that it is important for each one of the kids to know that they are special and that I do want to help them develop their potential to the fullest. Starting this month I will be scheduling one on one outing with each kid in order to build up a better bond with all of them.
June 3, 2012 @ 11:31 pm
I think that’s a great idea. I only have one child but even the one on one time with mommy or daddy is just as important as family time!
June 3, 2012 @ 11:51 pm
I love this idea!! And I’m sure they will look back when they are adults and love that you did it with them!!
I have read that it doesn’t even have to be a big outing; it could be setting aside 15-30 minutes in the house with just one of the children and that child choosing what s/he wants to do with you during that time that is strictly theirs.
June 4, 2012 @ 1:14 am
I think that is a good idea. My brother was born seven years after me. My dad and I didn’t really do anything one on one but my mom and did. I think those one on ones created the bond she and I have today.
June 4, 2012 @ 1:23 am
I think that’s fantastic. You get to know “them” much better and it’s so much less stressful than managing a bunch. You can relax and enjoy them individually. Have fun!
June 4, 2012 @ 10:13 am
This is an excellent idea! Have fun!
June 4, 2012 @ 11:57 am
Lovely reminder! I need to schedule more one on one time, too. It’s always so nice to have those special moments.
June 4, 2012 @ 1:23 pm
Definitely! One-on-one is crucial, I believe. It’s good for them (and for us, too) to be able to connect with them on an individual basis. Enjoy your mommy-and-me dates with each of your kids. 🙂
June 4, 2012 @ 5:44 pm
I am one of three and have very sweet memories of a summer when my mother made each Friday a special day for me or one of my sisters. I still remember going to lunch with my mom, just the two of us and then going to a movie! Very sweet memories and I love doing it with my own kids as well! Enjoy your summer holidays!!!
June 4, 2012 @ 8:24 pm
My hubby and I try to do this with our kids too….last weekend our daughter was camping so son got the alone time-this weekend Hubby took daughter to a show—my son(6) didn’t understand at first–but after hime and I talked…all he said was “Will you play soccer with me then??” and all was well =^D
June 4, 2012 @ 11:31 pm
Wonderful idea, my boys are getting to an age when I think I need to start doing this.
June 4, 2012 @ 11:39 pm
personally, i love spending time with my kids because i always feel this big responsibility that proper learning should come from me or have them prepared for whatever comes in life that’s why i always teach them how to be responsible and such.
you got cute kids 🙂
June 5, 2012 @ 12:04 am
Agree, its a good idea, i have only one daughter and i’m guilty because sometimes i don’t have time for her. Anyway, for sure your kids will appreciate everything you are doing for them.
June 5, 2012 @ 12:23 am
@Mona,
I’m sure you be able to find time for a date with your daugther. It doesn’t need much time and a solid 10-15 min does help a lot with the bonding.
June 5, 2012 @ 1:14 am
Very important to do this! 🙂 Love the pictures, Dominique!!