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Singaporean Educator, Coach and Hands on Mom of Three. Connect with me on Google+

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Writer’s Workshop: Personal Learning for February

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February has been a month of deep reflection for me.  I have been doing a lot of reading on positive teaching approaches and soul searching on how to build a closer relationship with friends and family.

I’ve read the books – Thinking Anew: Harnessing the Power of Belief and the book The ART of Having it ALL which focuses on changing a person’s mindset in order to achieve his goals.

The mind is certainly the most beautiful and powerful tool that we posses. If we are able to think about it, it can be achieved.

Even though  discipline and diligence plays a part in moving from conceptualizing an idea till actually attaining it,  without the vision one would never even have anything developed.

It is possible to have the life that I desire and I should continue working hard towards my chosen direction.

The book on Cybertraps for Educators was a refreshing read for me.  It  reaffirmed the need for me to educate the kids about the perils of technology.  Growing up in the digital age they are not spared from the possibility of being a victim to cyber bullying  or getting their reputation tarnished through screwing up while using the different social media outlets.

What I have learned 

Communication breakdown sometimes can leave one devastated. Getting one’s point across to the other person can be painfully difficult especially if either or both party has a mental block or biases against each other.

Alternative approaches need to be taken if the issue is to be worked on and get resolved instead of letting it slide and snowballing into a even greater problem.

Bottling up one’s feeling thoughts is not something that should be advocated as it is a breeding ground for uncertainty may lead to a degeneration of TRUST.   It’s still  best to lay all the cards that you have on hand out  and get to the root of any problem that you are facing to ensure that it is solved.

Holding back ones worries and not entrusting everything to GOD is really a very silly thing to do. Only he is the one who can help see you through the darkest day and lead you to the light.

Prayer is certainly very powerful and if you do listen carefully the answer that you are seeking will be there.

Monkey boy  recently lost his house keys and I nearly had to replace the lock and make a whole new set of keys for the whole family.

We prayed that the key would be found and be returned to him so that we did not need to get the lock replaced.

GOD was certainly watching over him as he managed to get it back the next day. The key was picked up by someone and handed over to the  Lost and Found counter in school.

That is the  power of PRAYER!!!

What have you learned in February?
Jenny Matlock

Mama’s Losin’ It

Bridging the GAP

Moving from Kindergarten to Primary school, Lower primary to Upper primary and  beyond has always has it’s challenges.

The expectation differ as a child progresses from one stage to another.  It is never easy adapting to the different standards and being able to meet up to your peers especially if you are in a new environment.

The  study engine has to be re-started after being on  vacations for 6-7 weeks and it does take a while to get back in gear. There are  so many new things to learn and  with the start of a new school year it can get overwhelming for the child.

In this series I will be touching on how I help to bridge the gaps for my kids as they progress from one level to another.

Tiger girl from Nursery to Kindergarten

Doggie boy from Lower Primary to Upper Primary ( P2 to P3)

Monkey boy from Primary 4 to Primary 5

It is a big difference for them and they are still adjusting to the new workload and pace of learning.  There  are different expectations placed on them as they face an accelerated pace of learning.

Growth is expected of them both in academic wise and maturity and this has been a struggle for all.

As they age and progress up the academic ladder monitoring and guiding them along the way only grows in importance.

Childhood is only a small window of time  for them to learn and develop skills and abilities which will see them through the rest of their lives.

Getting the right foothold is essential for the child to be able to cope with this increase workload and responsibility.  As a parent I am trying my best to equip my children with the right shoes to be able to do this.

Monkey Boy posing with his lunch

Monkey Boy posing with his lunch

I’ll be kicking on this series with Monkey boy as I share with you what I have been doing with him to get him up to speed now that he is in Primary 5.

I will be touching on the challenges that he currently faces and  what I have done and will be doing with him to make his transition smoother.

Stay tuned 🙂

 

1) Bridging the Gap- An Introduction

2) Bridging the Gap-  Identifying the Gap in Chinese Language ( P4 to P5 )

3) Bridging the Gap- Reinforcing the Learning of Chinese

4)Bridging the Gap- Identifying the Gap between P4 and P5 English.

5)Bridging the Gap- Learning of English in Upper Primary

6) Bridging the Gap- Identifying the Gap between P4 and P5 Maths

7) Bridging the Gap –  Modelling and Methods  in Maths (Part 1) 

8) Bridging the Gap- Modelling and Methods in Maths ( Part 2)

9) Bridging the Gap- Upper and Lower Primary Science

10) Bridging the Gap-  Moving from Lower to Upper Primary

11) Bridging the Gap- Moving from Lower to Upper Primary ( Part 2)