Supermom 101- How to Maintain Focus and Rhythm

I'm a supermom

In the last post I shared my daily routine  and how I incorporate all the task that I have to be done within the constrains of a day.  Some of the readers have feedback that it was tiring just reading through all the task that  I do daily. They wondered how I manage to keep going at it without running out of steam. This week I will let you in how I manage to maintain focus and rhythm.

Tiger girl

It can be tiring having to do so many tasks and chores on a daily basis.  Seeing the almost never ending list can make one feel  caged in and exhausted. Sometimes it does feel like you are searching for that exclusive flower within a sea of green.

You get lethargic and wish that secretly everything could be outsource and maybe it wouldn’t be a bad idea if you had a clone or robot to help you out. Unfortunately none of this maybe be a possible option for you and  it still is upon you to get everything done.How then can one prevent suffering from  being burnout or sinking into depression in the process?

Here are some tips on how I make it through even the most challenging days.

  1. Know your body and how it functions.
    Get to know which hour in the day your energy level is at the highest and schedule your more challenging tasks/activities to coincide with it. During the hours where you fell like you are stagnating or running low on battery take a catnap if possible or some repetitive task like folding the laundry.
  2. Anticipate changes and be flexible.
    Being a mom I know how difficult it is to follow a schedule to a T. It can be impossible so there is no point stressing over it. Modify and rearrange the things to be done as and when situations arise and you won’t feel that you are not in control of your day. No one says it’s a must to get everything done in a day. Don’t be too harsh on yourself!!
  3. Schedule in downtime for yourself- take a break.
    No one can function non stop. Even machines break down and need to be repaired. I don’t belief in pushing oneself to breaking point and falling sick often because of it. It makes more sense to keep oneself healthy as a mom doesn’t  have the “privilege” of calling in a sick day and leaving the tasks to others like  a dad. You still have to take care of the kids irregardless of the state of health you are in therefore it is best that we try to remain in the pink of health.
  4. Enshroud yourself with Positivity
    Having the correct mindset really gives you strength to see you through the day. Being positive and encouragement from self and others will only spur you to perform at your optimal potential.

How do you maintain your focus and rhythm?

 

 

 

Posts on this series

Supermom 101- My Personal Reflections

– Supermom 101- Starting up and Setting the Pace

Supermom 101- How to Maintain Focus and Rhythm

Underwater World Singapore- A Review

Underwater world

Two weeks ago we were invited to the Underwater World to view its latest attraction the Zebra Horn Sharks. It has been a few years since we have been to the place. I remember the last time we visited the Underwater world Doggie boy was still being pushed around in a pram!! The kids looked forward to visiting the place and I too was interested to see their latest exhibit.

the turtle

The kids waited around the Hawksbill sea turtle exhibit at the entrance while I went to  ticketing counter to retrieve our complementary tickets.

tickets

 

Once the tickets were in hand we could proceed inside the Underwater  World to view the exhibits.

dolphin lagoon

We arrived there bright and early just after the place had opened so that we could be in time for the dolphin show at 11am. It was the first time that we were watching the dolphin show. The previous time when we visited the Underwater world the dolphin lagoon was located in a separate location.

pink dolphin

The star of the show- The Pink Dolphin.

dolphin

The  pink dolphins with their trainer doing tricks in the performance pool.

fur seals

Besides the pink dolphins there were also two fur  seal performing for the crowd. They performed a few tricks for the crowd and were great catching hoops around their bodies.

After the dolphin show we proceeded inside to view the rest of the exhibits at the Underwater world.

exhibits

The kids were captivated by the Jewels of the reef and spent a lot of time gazing at the exhibits on display at this booth. They had to be prodded along as the  storytelling session  by Bookaburra was about to begin in the room next to it.

storytelling session

The presenter read two different stories and there was a short art and crafts session at the end of the 2nd story. The kids were  entertained by the animated expressions by the presenter when she told the stories.

shark craft

The kids got busy to creating their own shark eating “clip” after the story telling session ended.

completed shark

When the peg is opened you can see the fish/creature that the shark has “eaten”.

the underwater tank

After the art and craft session ended we continued our tour of the Underwater world. We went to view the oceanarium   which has a revolving belt to bring visitors around the tank. The place seems much smaller then I remembered since the last time I viewed it.  The kids weren’t too keen to view the shark and fishes in the tank and wanted to go off for lunch as they were getting hungry by then.

As we headed towards the exit I suddenly remember we haven’t viewed the main exhibit that we were invited to see- the Zebra Horn Sharks. Where was that exhibit?

Zebra Horn Shark

The sharks were happily resting in the  temporarily converted touch pool at the entrance. We didn’t realized that we skipped past them when we entered the place as there wasn’t any signage to alert us or inform us about their “star” exhibit. It could have been better presented if there were signs and displays leading to the exhibit.

The kids had a fun morning at the Underwater world and they enjoyed themselves. It was a good ending to the June holidays.

 

For more information about  Underwater World Singapore do visit their website

Underwater World Singapore.

10am-7pm

Adult: S$25.90
Child 3-12 years old: S$17.60
Child below 3 years old: Free

 

 

Disclaimer: Dominique’s Desk was given a media invite pass to Underwater World Sentosa. All opinions about the experience at the place are 100% my own.