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The Grateful Life- A Book Review

The Grateful Life Book Cover

The Grateful Life Book Cover

The Grateful Life: The Secret to Happiness, and the Science of Contentment by Nina Lesowitz and Mary Beth Sammons is a book filled with stories and testimonials on how gratitude has changed ones life.

The impact of positivity  on a person’s outlook of life and how it has helped to turn their lives around are mentioned throughout the  ten chapters of the book.

Gratitude is habit-forming. It doesn’t happen overnight and when it does exist you would find that you are more at peace with yourself and change the lens which you view the world.

Giving thanks for all that happens- good or bad- strengthens your relationship with the spirit and how spiritual prosperity manifests itself in the world.

Lesowitz and Sammons portray  how the ordinary person is able to live a full and fruitful life despite having to suffer from various worldly ailments and personal hardships if they have gratitude in their lives.

Despite the physical and emotional pain that the people in the stories were experiencing they managed to follow their heart’s desires and passions.  Even though they were suffering they were able to reach out and help others in need.

In one of the stories a family lost almost everything that they had in a flood and were really touched when the community reached out to them and helped them rebuild their home.  Their neighbours and friends opened out their house to them and strangers donated both their time and money to their rebuilding efforts. It was a really show of caring and generosity for the responders who were really grateful for the help of others during their time of hardship.

My thoughts

I found the stories in the book extremely inspirational. It is not easy for one to be appreciative about the things that they have in life. It may seem that someone else is getting a better deal than you have or more fortunate then you.

Comparison only leads to bitterness and negativity. However once you start to realize that there are many blessings that you have in your life and start to show gratitude for what you have your outlook of live will change for the better.

With gratitude  one will be able to pull through the difficult times in life like the women in all the examples given in the book.  The positivity that they radiate gave them the energy to  see them through all the trials and tribulations that they face.

Being positive also made it easier for them to go through and recover from trauma. Having appreciation in your heart also makes one more at peace and also increases  the level of happiness felt on a daily basis.  It’s certainly a great approach to life to adopt.

If you are looking to learn how to be happy and contented this is certainly the book to read.

Pick up your copy of The Grateful Life: The Secret to Happiness, and the Science of Contentment by Nina Lesowitz and Mary Beth Sammons today.

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Highlights of October 2014

3 sparrows on the branch

3 sparrows on the branch

Two more months to the end of 2014. The challenging days of October are over and the more demanding months of November and December are coming up soon.

Some yummy dishes which we had on holiday

Some yummy dishes which we had on holiday

This month  I had the opportunity to travel again and Tiger girl and I went on our first Mother and Daughter trip to Taiwan. It was a fun eating and shopping trip for us  as we savoured the mouth watering dishes that the city Taipei had to offer.

A breakfast collage

A breakfast collage

It was the first time that I was travelling solo with her  however it was not something that made me apprehensive as we travel quite often together.  I only had to do some minor adjustments as I did not have extra hands to help with additional luggage in the event that she falls asleep while we are travelling.

On the high speed rail to Hsinchu

On the high speed rail to Hsinchu

We experience travelling on the various modes of transportation available in Taiwan. We went around via  the subway, High speed rail and taxi to the different places of interest.

Making TangYuan  together

Making Tang Yuan together

It was raining quite a lot during our stay in Taiwan and I had to look for indoor activities to occupy Tiger girl. We tried out making Tang Yuan  at this cafe. They boiled the Tang Yuan for us to eat after we had made them. Unfortunately Tiger girl didn’t really like the taste and she passed on eating any that she made.

Making a Rabbit in the bath jewelry holder

Making a Rabbit in the bath jewelry holder

We end up doing quite a bit of crafts while on holiday in between window shopping and eating.  It was a fun and relaxing  holiday for me.

Red Pagodas

Red Pagodas

Besides shopping we did visit parks and a lake where we saw birds and flowers. There was even a bee on one!!

Bee on a Daisy

Bee on a Daisy

I’ve restarted my drive and embarked on a new challenge  now that the prize has been stated and the staked upped.  I’ve redefined myself as a Work-In-Progress and am constantly tweaking myself so that I can perform better.

Tiger girl and Me

Tiger girl and Me

I’ve been doing quite a bit of reading to and the latest book which I have read was  Small Talk by Amy Julia Becker where I learned how great her commitment and faith is in GOD. She has been given the challenge of bringing up a special needs child  and shared with her readers her struggles that she has as a parent.

It is never  too late to put in effort in building up a strong relationship with GOD and I’ve completed a 8 week study on the book of Esther this month with a clearer understanding of how GOD works his magic.

How was your month of October?