When I was 18 I was in my 1st year at the University. I was fresh out of collage and on to my Bachelor of Commerce.
At that time my aim was simply to finish my degree before I was 21 years old. Find a guy in the university settle down, get married and have some kids. I planned to have a couple of kids and to birth them before I reached 30 years old so that I would have enough time and energy to spend time with them during their childhood years.
Simplistic ideas which I was working hard to achieve.
I graduated with a Bachelor of Commerce at 20, Got engaged at 21 and married before I turned 22 years old. Had my #1 at 25yrs old, #2 and 29 yrs old and #3 at 32 yrs old. Well.. slightly off the 30yrs old marker which I set for myself but hey.. at least before I’m being classified under the high risk pregnancy category for older mothers.
I’m blessed that everything that I wanted- I got it!!














10 comments
Diane @ BeStillaMinute
May 19, 2011 at 1:30 pm (UTC 8) Link to this comment
Congrats on getting what your heart desired! I can’t say I had anything even resembling a plan when I graduated, other than to go to college. Well done.
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maria@PersonalizedSketches
May 19, 2011 at 2:25 pm (UTC 8) Link to this comment
It looks like you were pretty much on track to reach your goals
) Your three little ones are cute
) Two little boys and a little girl? We have two girls and our “baby” is our boy.
Blessings & Aloha!
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Sue
May 19, 2011 at 3:01 pm (UTC 8) Link to this comment
Same here, which makes both of us very lucky women!
=)
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Dominique
May 20, 2011 at 4:48 am (UTC 8) Link to this comment
@maria,
Yes we have two boys and a girl.. they are the spices in my life
Lola
May 19, 2011 at 7:09 pm (UTC 8) Link to this comment
Congrats on achieving your goal! Well done.
Happy A-Thursday,
XOXO Lola:)
Amanda
May 19, 2011 at 9:25 pm (UTC 8) Link to this comment
You have every reason to be proud, good job!
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ellen b
May 20, 2011 at 1:47 am (UTC 8) Link to this comment
Sounds like your planning worked well for you. I’m glad you are enjoying the outcome of those plans.
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Betty
May 20, 2011 at 1:51 am (UTC 8) Link to this comment
Congratulations on reaching your goals! Enjoy!
mom2kiddos
May 20, 2011 at 6:37 am (UTC 8) Link to this comment
Hi there Dominique. I’m new here and I like what I see. Gosh you’re so young to be having 3 kids already. I’m happy for you that you have achieved everything that you want. Congrats!
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Jenny Matlock
May 22, 2011 at 5:25 pm (UTC 8) Link to this comment
How neat! I love a girl with a plan! Especially when the plan works out!
Maybe that’s what I did wrong with my life…sigh…
Thanks for an excellent post! I’m happy that things all worked out exceptionally well for you!
A+
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