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Preparing your Pre-Schooler- Bilingual Writing

Doggy Boy at a cupcake decoration birthday party

Last month I posted about Oral Preparations for my eldest (Monkey Boy). This month my focus is more on my middle child(Doggy Boy).

My little boy is 4 and in Kindergarten One this year. He is very keen in academic learning but one thing he has been rather resistant to is writing. He is okay  with learning new words in both English and Mandarin but when it comes to writing he will drag his feet and find all excuses just to get away from doing it.

In approximately 1.5 years  time he will be entering elementary school like his elder brother and I will have to get him accustomed to writing and doing other written exercises.  I know at this age boys have rather limited attention span and that they are rather more focus on fun and play then academics.

To get him sufficiently prepared for school we have started on some simple writing exercises at home during the week.

Practice books for Doggy Boy

I chose these books for him as they seem manageable with him only needing to sit down for a maximum of 5-10 minutes to complete an exercise. We do a page a day and alternate between English and Chinese.  As Chinese writing is different from writing in English I want him to get accustomed to writing the different strokes that make up a Chinese character. I got him a few Character tracing books so that he learns how to write the different characters using the proper sequences in strokes.

It is important for him to write the strokes properly as if a certain stroke is too long or too short or written in the wrong direction you may end up with a different character ( word) then you originally want to write.  It is the same case as in English where by a poorly written “h” can be mistaken for a “n” if the line is not written long enough.

Here are some photos of his written work.

English Exercises which he has done
Chinese Writing Exercises
Chinese Writing book with Tracing

Since starting Doggy Boy on these books his behaviour towards writing has improved a lot. He initially started out bawling and very reluctant to even write a single alphabet/character and could easily take up to an hour just to finish a page as he would sneak off to play or be doodling around when I took my eyes off him to attend to his siblings. Now he takes about 5 minutes and would consciously sit down to complete the page.

I will be moving on to getting him to do simple comprehension activities and starting him on basic essay writing once he completes this series of books.

How do you get your child started on writing?

Bilingual Speaking – Oral Exam Preparations

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As Monkey Boy returns back to school for a new term it’s time to ramp up and accelerate my academic coaching with him.  This semester we will be adding Oral practice to our  to-do-list.

It can be rather daunting for a little kid to be tested on speaking in front of an adult on a given topic and carry out a conversation without much preparation. Therefore to make him more at ease in his speech, I will be doing quite a bit of scenario practice in both English and Chinese.

The best way for a child to describe and talk about a situation is for him to experience it first hand. Through personal experience the impact on him would be more long lasting and easier to relate to for Monkey Boy.

I use the same material/scene for both English and Chinese oral. Eg: After an outing to the supermarket I get Monkey Boy to  talk about his experience to the supermarket. I initially started of with him talking in English as it’s his more dominant language as compared to Mandarin (Chinese). However now I’m getting Monkey Boy to start off in Chinese then repeat back to me once again in English.

My aim is to get him speaking more fluently in Chinese and be able to use grammatically correct sentences and not direct translated sentences from English to Chinese.  As sentence formation in Chinese differs from those made in English. If Monkey boy directly translated from English they would be horrendous as he will be using the wrong sentence structure and the flow of his ideas/thoughts would be disjointed. He has to get use to forming simple sentences before he is able to use more complex ones.

By being able to speak well in oral will relate to being able to write better at composition as one already has  mastery of formation of sentences. It will also help Monkey boy in expressing himself more clearly.

I bought for him  this book and some other similar books for him to practice.  My aim is to let him get use to the intonation and speeds of various speakers. I also got a similar one in English for him.

My next aim would be for him to be able to relate accounts/experiences in Cantonese as he too has to be able to speak our dialect to communicate well with the older relatives and his other cousins.

How do you prepare your child for their Oral Assessment?