Weekend Reflections: Lean on Me
Last week while out snapping pictures of the mid autumn lanterns I managed to capture this shot of Tiger girl resting on the shoulders of R. It got me thinking how important it is for us as parents to be like a rock for our kids.
Our kids depend on us for a wide variety of things. From physical to emotional support and everything in between. We are their caregiver, financial support, teacher and advisor. Their pillar of strength which they look to in times or need. Their refuge when they seek warmth and comfort. A shoulder for them to lean on when their burden gets too heavy to bear alone.
As a parent we build and make the home that they live in. We help create the memories that will be cherished and remembered all throughout their lives and ours. We give them the skills they need and all the help necessary for them to become independent and self reliant individuals. Whatever we do leaves a big impact on their lives in both positive and negative ways.
It is a real astronomical responsibility that we have as a parent to be a positive influence in our kids life. I count it as a blessing from GOD instead of a burden. It is a gift to be able to be there for our kids in times of pain and sorrow. A shoulder for them to lean on.
Have you been reflecting on your role as a parent lately?
