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Tiger Girl Turns 4!!

Tiger girl and me

Tiger girl and me

My little girl is really growing up very fast. She will be turning 4 this Friday. It seems like it was only yesterday that she was a newborn.

Tiger girl at 1 month old

Tiger girl at 1 month old

When she was about a year old

When she was about a year old

Tiger girl is less chubby now and has lost most of her baby fat at this age.  This few days she is really very vocal and can express herself very well.  She will let you know very explicitly her likes and dislikes.

Tiger girl playing on the swing

Tiger girl playing on the swing

She loves playing in the park and the slide and swing are her favourite.  We are lucky that there are many playgrounds near our house so she can have her pick of which she would like to play at.

Tiger girl having fun on a kiddy ride

Tiger girl having fun on a kiddy ride

Tiger girl is still attracted to these kiddy rides that we see when we go out and would ask for a ride. I normally allow her to have a ride if we see $0.20 machines like the one above.

Tiger girl in her  pink swimming costume

Tiger girl in her pink swimming costume

Swimming is one of her favourite  activities now and every weekend she would eagerly get ready for her swimming lesson.  Since starting swim lesson this January her water confidence has increased by leaps and bounds. She can now swim a short distance underwater without assistance and is learning freestyle at the moment.

Happy birthday princess!!

 
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When Miles Got Mad

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When Miles Got Mad – Book Review

When Miles Got Mad by  Sam Kurtzman-Counter is a short picture book for pre-schoolers teaching them how to deal with their feelings.

In this book Miles get MAD when his little brother accidentally breaks his favourite toy.  His anger grows and grows until it manifested itself as a  big harry red monster. 

A page from the book (c) Ruby's Studio

A page from the book (c) Ruby’s Studio

The  20 + page picture book by Ruby’s Studio has lovely  illustrations like the one you see above.  The pictures are a mixture of real life settings with cartoon like characters.  Important words are highlighted in red, making it easy for the child to focus on it.

Photo from @Ruby Studio

Photo from @Ruby’s Studio

Miles was shocked to see a monster in the mirror instead of his reflection. It took a lot of encouragement by the Monster to use words to express his  anger. As Miles expressed his anger in words the Monster grew smaller and smaller until it finally disappeared once his anger left him.

Through the whole episode Miles learned how to control his anger and how to think rationally.  He also forgave his brother for his actions and together they repaired the broken toy plane. They continued playing happily with each other and put the incident behind them.

My thoughts

The author make it easy for the child to see how anger manifests within himself as a monster. It shows him how “ugly” they become when he gives in to these negative feelings.

The child is also shown how it is possible to work out his feelings and taught how to  “talk it through”. Many a time a child uses angry words or actions to express himself as he does not know alternative methods of expression which may be more productive.

I found this an excellent book as it teaches the concept of working through emotions safely without having the child throwing a tantrum.  I enjoyed reading the book with my pre-schooler and will be revisiting the book off and on with her.

 

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