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Soc: Keeping Kids Safe

Keeping your child safe.

The attempted kidnapped cases reported on Facebook and the newspaper has sent many parents into a heightened sense of alertness all throughout Singapore. Even though after verification that some of the reported cases were hoaxes it is still better to play safe then sorry when it comes to my kids personal safety.

I’ve recently taken out the child harnesses which I had used with Doggie boy back then when he was a toddler for Tiger girl to use. She is now at this stage whereby she wants to run around as doesn’t not want to hold your hand. It’s extremely dangerous when we go out as being so little she can be very difficult to spot in a crowd. Therefore for now until she is old enough she will be on harness when we go out.

The boys have been briefed about strangers and safety while being out in public places. I have highlighted the reported cases in the newspapers to them and we did a reflection on how they would have felt if they were in the shoes of the kidnapped boy.  There hasn’t been any scenario role play with them as yet but stern warnings to keep within eye shot and my reach when we are out to prevent anything from happening to them. I do know that child trafficking has been on the rise lately.

Many of these kidnapped kids  in China were being maimed and forced to beg for a living. It’s downright human cruelty and abuse just for the sake of exploiting others for money and it has been really difficult for the government to crackdown on such a syndicate.

 

The only thing which I can do as a parent and on my level is to be vigilant and  to teach my child to defend himself and how to be protect himself from such evil people.

What are you doing to keep your child/children safe?

#SOCsunday

Raising Amazing Children – A Book Review

Raising Amazing Children book cover

Raising Amazing Children (…While Having a Life of Your Own) is an  E-book which title really caught my attention. I’m always on the look out for books which can help me become a better parent and this book really does have lots of handy tips and examples. Parenting is never easy and it has been a learn on the go experience for me for the past 9 years. Each child has his own unique traits and personality and there is no cookie cutter solution to solve all obstacles which are thrown at me on a daily basis. Having children doesn’t mean that it spells the end to your own lifestyle and that you have to put everything on hold till the kids are grown. There are ways to involve the kids and still have a great life while doing so.

Deborah Drezon Carroll mentions and I quote

 “Kids must learn early in life that you mean what you say and that your words are consistent.

Rules must be accompanied with consequences and the consequences must be consistent.”

I find this really true and have been striving to do the following with my own kids. I believe in training them from young so that they will be equipped with the right tools and mindset to deal with any obstacles which they may face in life.  In her  5 chapter book Deborah mentioned how you can involve your kids in your daily routine from working around the house to outings with them.

She gives very practical tips on how one can use daily activities like doing the laundry of washing dishes to teach their child about the concepts on measuring, sorting, reading of labels and following through on instructions. I’m already incorporating some of these tips of her with my 18 month old girl by teaching her about the various colours while we do the laundry together.

Deborah is all for positive teaching and preaches these 10 things which parents should keep in mind while interacting with the kids.

Her 10 tips
 

  1. Be positive.
  2. Read in front of your child.
  3. Exhibit self-discipline and responsibility.
  4. Talk to your child.
  5. Invite your child into your life, even to the most mundane activities.
  6. Be a lifelong learner and encourage your child to be one too.
  7.  Ask questions.
  8. Visit your child’s school at least once each year beyond the parent-teacher conference time.
  9. Value education.
  10. Laugh together.

If we are able to do all of the above we will be creating a conducive learning environment for our children and be able to build up their positive self esteem.

My thoughts

I found this book very insightful and will be implementing the tips that I have found in the book which I have yet to try out with the kids.

If you are interested in getting your own copy of this book  it is available in Kindle edition or Paperback on Amazon.

 

Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book  for review purposes.Opinions are 100% my own.

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