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Embracing Motherhood

embracing motherhood

Motherhood is a journey that many of us are currently on. It is a journey fill which we embark on from the birth of our first child till when we depart from this earth.

This life long journey leads us through a great variety of feeling which may make us feel an all time high or sink us to the deepest depths of despair.

Everyday is a learning journey and not one mother will have exactly the same experiences.

Join me and 25 other bloggers as we share how we embrace motherhood starting from the 12th of March.

 12th March – Ling Siew Ng  of MamaShoppe

 13th March–  Christy  Wong of Kids are Simple

14th March-  Ruth Song of Ruth Song 

15th March– Angelia Ang of Growing hearts

16th March– Madeline Heng of MadPsychMum

17th March– WaiWai of PeipeiHaoHao

19th March– Meiling Wong-Chainani of Universalscribbles

19th March– Shermeen Ching of Meeningfully

20th March– Jolin Poon of J’s Arena

21st March– Cen-Lin Ting of Miracule

22nd March- Winnie Lee of  Toddlymummy

23rd March– Angeline Ng of Simplymommie

24th March– Adora Tan of Gingerbreadmum

25th March– Jennifer Lim of Dinomama

26th March– Danessa Foo of PrayerfullMum

27th March– Lu Jiahui of Mumseword

28th March– Pearlyn Lim of  Blessed Family

29th March– Ashlyn Thia of Ashlyn Thia 

30th March- Estella  Goh of Sooddlydreamlike

31st March- Rachael  Joel-Tan of Jahbella

1st April-Lin YanXiang of  The Littlest and us makes three

2nd April – Qian Wen of Raising Our Successful Children

3rd April- Beverly Woo of Hello Little Sunshine

4th April– Dawn Liling of Daprayer Blog

5th April– Valerie Choy of Home On The Stone

6th- April– Dominique  My round up post of this blog train.

Will you be joining us?

 

Do you want to share your story on Embracing Motherhood? You can join in by  adding  the link to your post in the linky below 🙂

Writer’s Workshop: Personal Learning for February

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February has been a month of deep reflection for me.  I have been doing a lot of reading on positive teaching approaches and soul searching on how to build a closer relationship with friends and family.

I’ve read the books – Thinking Anew: Harnessing the Power of Belief and the book The ART of Having it ALL which focuses on changing a person’s mindset in order to achieve his goals.

The mind is certainly the most beautiful and powerful tool that we posses. If we are able to think about it, it can be achieved.

Even though  discipline and diligence plays a part in moving from conceptualizing an idea till actually attaining it,  without the vision one would never even have anything developed.

It is possible to have the life that I desire and I should continue working hard towards my chosen direction.

The book on Cybertraps for Educators was a refreshing read for me.  It  reaffirmed the need for me to educate the kids about the perils of technology.  Growing up in the digital age they are not spared from the possibility of being a victim to cyber bullying  or getting their reputation tarnished through screwing up while using the different social media outlets.

What I have learned 

Communication breakdown sometimes can leave one devastated. Getting one’s point across to the other person can be painfully difficult especially if either or both party has a mental block or biases against each other.

Alternative approaches need to be taken if the issue is to be worked on and get resolved instead of letting it slide and snowballing into a even greater problem.

Bottling up one’s feeling thoughts is not something that should be advocated as it is a breeding ground for uncertainty may lead to a degeneration of TRUST.   It’s still  best to lay all the cards that you have on hand out  and get to the root of any problem that you are facing to ensure that it is solved.

Holding back ones worries and not entrusting everything to GOD is really a very silly thing to do. Only he is the one who can help see you through the darkest day and lead you to the light.

Prayer is certainly very powerful and if you do listen carefully the answer that you are seeking will be there.

Monkey boy  recently lost his house keys and I nearly had to replace the lock and make a whole new set of keys for the whole family.

We prayed that the key would be found and be returned to him so that we did not need to get the lock replaced.

GOD was certainly watching over him as he managed to get it back the next day. The key was picked up by someone and handed over to the  Lost and Found counter in school.

That is the  power of PRAYER!!!

What have you learned in February?
Jenny Matlock

Mama’s Losin’ It