stream of Consciousness

SOC: Bringing up Baby

 

They say that bringing up a girl is different from bringing up a boy.  After having two boys and now a girl I do notice that there is quite a bit of difference. For once she screams way more then her brothers. I seriously don’t remember them being so noisy at this age.

It has been a joy staying home and watch Tiger girl grow from a tiny infant to a feisty 18 month old toddler she has really changed a lot this past 1.5 yrs.  From toothless grins to a 7.5 teeth smile there has been rapid development in my little girl. She now is able to follow simple instructions and seems extremely mature for her age. I guess with two older brothers at home to learn from it must have accelerated her development.

At 18 months old she is able to do the following

  • Self feed using fork and spoon. It still is a bit messy and I do need to guide her at times but it’s great that she is eating independently.
  • simple
  • Is able to call and address everyone of the family including grandparents.
  • Speaks in 2-3 word sentences. ” Nana (She call’s herself that) wants Cheese!!”, ” Please.. Mummy.. Thank You etc”
  • can follow simple instructions spoken to her in English, Mandarin or Cantonese.
  • Knows how to clear up after herself. Will bring her bowl/cutlery into the kitchen after finishing her food. Throws the tissues/ boxes into the dustbin after drinking/using it.
  • Keeps her shoes in the shoe rack when we come home after going out.
  • Helps me around the house when I do the laundry,keeps things after using.

I feel girls are more caring and considerate as compared to boys as she will happily bring me my pair of shoes before we leave the house and she loves coming up to give me hugs and kisses when she sees me. My boys never did that at this age.

 

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SOC: Holiday Planning

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The school holiday has started for the boys.  It will be a really busy 6 weeks till 2012 for me. I have to plan and execute activities to keep all 3 kids meaningfully occupied. It would be exhausting as R will be flying 3 out of those 6 weeks and I’ll be handing the kids solo again.

There are many places that run holiday classes for kids however I will be giving them a miss as firstly they are costly and it can be a hassle transporting the kids for the various classes besides those they already attend on a weekly basis.

I’m thinking of doing more hands on activities and bringing them to parks to play if the weather permits. I’m sure the boys would love doing more baking and science experiments at home besides me working on the areas which they need more practice in languages.

Maybe I have time to focus on Japanese which I have been putting aside all this while and really immerse the kids in this other language beside English, Mandarin and Cantonese.

We also have to start packing for our holidays to Bali in two weeks time. Time for beach and sun and lots of time in the swimming pool. It would be our first trip there and everyone is excited.

What do you have planned for the holiday season?