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Writer’s Workshop: Just Sayin’

Doggie boy and Monkey boy sharing a glass of chocolate milk

Doggie boy and Monkey boy sharing a glass of chocolate milk

Since the last time I wrote about what the kids have been saying I have been collating all their interesting anecdotes which I’ll be sharing here.

As you know kids are blatantly honest  and they certainly don’t mince their words.  It can be both good and bad depending on how you perceive it.

Most of the time I encourage my kids to be honest even though feelings can be hurt and it may not seem that “socially acceptable” in certain circumstances. However as they are growing up and people are less forgiving of adults as compared to kids I am teaching them how to “read” the situation before giving their opinions.

A facebook status which I wrote a few week's back.

A  Facebook status which I wrote a few weeks back.

My #1 son is very outspoken and very willing to let other’s know his thoughts. I recently shared on my Facebook Page our experience at a trial that we went for an enrichment center.

If you can’t see what was posted here it is again.

Receiving positive affirmation from your child has to be one of the best satisfaction a parent can get. It certainly made my day when Monkey boy said no to an enrichment class as he was certain that I could teach him better then the center’s tutor. ‘My mummy knows how to make lessons interesting and you don’t” after we did a trial.

 

While we were on board of the plane to Hong Kong last month the stewardess asked him where his parent were as both boys were seated with each other  while the girl and I were seated in the row behind.

Monkey boy said” There  she is.. she’s seating behind us. My mummy is very capable you know. She can take care of all of us alone!!”

Doggie boy and me

Doggie boy and me

Even though the boys can be very endearing they can certainly drive you up the wall at times.

While  asking them to get ready for bed as it was getting late.

” Mummy. I’m doing something very very important okay. You just have to wait” said Doggie boy.

“What’s so important ?” I ask.

“It’s boys stuff okay.. Important!!.. wait!!”  Doggie boy says rather irritably.

Going over to look at what the “important” thing is I was annoyed to see him watching another  MineCraft video on you tube.

” Watching videos are so important is it? I asked him

” Yes!! Very important to me!!” he replied.

That is SOOO important to do as compared to getting ready for bed. Grrr!!! ( Seriously annoyed with this kid.)

Tiger girl at the window sill

Tiger girl at the window sill

” Come on..we have to go” I tell Tiger girl.

“No. I’m not done yet?” she replies

“We will be late!!” I say

” I’m not done yet!! Can’t you see I am admiring the scenery. You wait okay!!” she says looking smug.

* Can faint!!*

What are the darnest things that
your kids have said?

Any memorable moments?

 

 

Jenny Matlock Mama’s Losin’ It

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Writer’s Workshop: Great time to plant a Bloom

A purple bloom I captured with my handphone.

A purple bloom I captured with my hand phone.

It’s the 2nd half of the year and there has been a lot of changes this month as the kids move into a new school term.

The boys have extra classes in school and I’m  busy juggling their schedule, work and studies this semester.  This month I’ve signed up for  a Photo reading course to improve my learning ability. I hope with this new skill I will be able to read faster, retain the information that I need and use it when needed.

Now is the time to start ” sewing” new seeds before the year end harvest.  Techniques that have worked well  will be continued and those which didn’t work be adapted to increase it’s effectiveness.

In June I have been doing quite a bit of reading and came across these wonderful  set of principles in one of the books I read.

10 Underlying Principles to follow

  1. We each have the ability to make decisions.
  2. You do have the ability to make a choice.
  3.  Everything in your life is your personal responsibility.
  4.  Feelings are your guiding light.
  5.  Everything vibrates and either attracts similar vibrations or repels dissimilar vibrations.
  6.  The more you do something, the more it becomes a habit.
  7.  What you see around you is what you are thinking and feeling on the inside.
  8.  It’s only true until it’s not.
  9.  Reality is only a reality based upon your perception.
  10.  When you live with the feeling of love, life is easier.

I feel that these are great principles to follow.  Everything that we do affects our well-being and the way we live our lives.

Reflecting on them  has made me understand myself better and I’m more at peace.

What have you learned this June?

Anything interesting to share?

Jenny Matlock Mama’s Losin’ It

SANses.com's Talkative Thursdays