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Gift Wrapping with Jane Means

Wrapped gifts on display

Wrapped gifts on display

Last weekend was a special weekend for me.  It was the first time that I attended a hands on  Gift wrapping Workshop.

I was privilege to attend the workshop conductor conducted by famed  Author, Presenter and Designer Jane Means from UK.

She has been wrapping for many big brands for the past 15 years and has her own line of gift wrapping accessories and stationary which she sells online.

The basic tools that was needed- Scissors and tape

The basic tools that was needed- Scissors and tape

The first thing we learned  in the workshop was how to make a simple bow out of a wired ribbon.

Instruction cards on how to make a rose

Instruction cards on how to make a rose

We started off by making a 3 pleat bow and later added a rose to it.

Using the bow and rose as a plate directions

Using the bow and rose as a plate directions

As you can see by adding the rose to the bow it gives it a lot more “volume”.

Using the bow on a bottle we wrapped up.

Using the bow on a bottle we wrapped up.

Bows are very versatile and can be used to dress up any item. You can see it here being use to decorate a bottle which had been wrapped up.

The bow and rose used as decoration on a box

The bow and rose used as decoration on a box- The example done by Jane.

Mine isn’t half as pretty as the one made by Jane and certainly needs  lots to work on to get to her standard. I definitely need more practice!!

Wrapping a flat present

Wrapping a flat present

Besides learning how to make bows out of wired ribbons we also made bows out of ribbons of different materials.

I learned how to make a tailored ribbon bow which could be used for boxes or any odd shaped presents.  In the collage above you could use the bow to decorate the tissue which was used to wrap up the present.

If just having a simple bow on a tissue wrapped present isn’t desirable there are other ways which you can do you gift wrapping.

For the same packet of sweets we can add another layer of wrapping using  cellophane to give “bulk” to the gift . ( seen above)

DIY envelopes decorated with ribbons

DIY envelopes decorated with ribbons

Another items which Jane showed me how to make are these  envelopes from wrapping paper.

They are quite simple to make and are great for small items or even samples which can be use as door gifts at an event.

A pinwheel

A pinwheel

This pinwheel certainly makes a great prop for decorating a  gift table or buffet table.   I didn’t make a pinwheel during the workshop but a blue pompom instead.

A Tin with a pompom on the top

A Tin with a pompom on the top

Using a pompom as a decoration really makes the present look so much more eye catching. Using  the pompom as the center piece on the wrapped up tin makes it more outstanding and it’s certainly not that difficult to make. If you are not sure how to make it you can refer to the tutorial on tissue pompom on Jane’s blog.

A ric rac flower decoration

A ric rac flower decoration

This has to be one of my favourite decorations that afternoon. Making a ric rag flower is quite easy and it really looks very pretty.

A present with another ric rag flower

A present with another ric rac flower

All you need is some ric rac ribbon  and twirl it into a flower before attaching some stitches at the bottom to hold it in place. What  would like to try is a dual color rose made from ric rac ribbon as I’m sure it will look even more outstanding.

Our group photo with Jane Means

Our group photo with Jane Means

It was a really lovely afternoon for me and I had lots of fun learning new wrapping techniques while attending the workshop with fellow SMB bloggers.

I certainly recommend that you sign up  for a gift wrapping class if you are interested in jazzing up your gifts.

Disclaimer: I was invited to attend this  gift wrapping  workshop. All opinions are 100% mine

 

Coming out of Cage: A Tiger Mom’s Journey

Coming out of Cage

Coming out of Cage

Coming Out Of Cage: Journey of a Tiger Mom by E. Way is a book of self reflection where the author recalls how it was for her growing up in a traditional Chinese family where high emphasis is placed on academic results and achievements.

As the daughter of immigrant parents  her parents placed a high emphasis on her achieving excellent academic results as they saw it is the BEST way for her to succeed in life and to make them proud.

They neglected the fact that they had to give her moral and emotional support and not just financial support so that she could have a holistic education during her childhood years.

E. Way herself adopted her parents method of bringing up her kids and used to pride herself on doing everything for her kids by providing for them the best education possible.

She unknowingly subscribed to the notion that Good grades and high test scores were everything. This brought upon her and her family lots of stress with unrealistic expectations.

Things started breaking down and there were torn relationships between herself and her kids. Her marriage failed and she tried to use her successes in work to “redeem herself” but found herself suffering from cancer instead. Her daughter too had a serious illness which was life changing. Everything seem to be failing.

You are not who you think you are,
You are not who others think you are,
You are who you think others might think
you are.

The focus that she had on outward appearance and fitting in with so called society norms had caused her a lot of agony. She was pursuing all the wrong things in life and feeling empty side

E. Way had an “Ah Ha” moment when she realized that her focus had been wrong all the time. You can say her eyes were open when she finally surrendered  all to GOD.

My thoughts

I found this book an extremely refreshing read and could relate to what she has written as I’ve personally experience majority of the things which she had mention growing up in a Chinese household.

Sometimes what you think that is best for your child can be really damaging in the long run when one is not focus on fully nurturing the child as listed in the section where E.Way admitted the mistakes that she made.

Mistake #5: Mindlessly Saying Foolish and Hurtful Things

I personally have suffered the brunt of this  mistake which E. Way has listed during my childhood. Growing up in a Chinese family many elders “think” that it would spur the younger ones to do better if they talk down to you or pass hurtful remarks about you and your demeanor. Unfortunately it does the opposite as it breaks down one’s spirit and drive.

Whatever you do is never good enough and they(the elders)  love comparing everything and anything about you to make themselves feel superior/smart and you feel small

It’s all about  FACE value  and the “so- called” worth and respect that they perceive comes along with it.

“Fix your thoughts on what is true, and
honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely,
and admirable. Think about things that are
excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting
into practice all you learned and received from
me—everything you heard from me and saw
me doing. Then the God of peace will be with
you.” Philippians 4: 8-9 (NLT)

It is not about putting a child down but on the contrary giving him the tools and teaching him how to be a better person by assisting him in reaching his potential.

Each child grows and mature at a different rate and as parents we need to realize that even though we want the best for them  certainly things that we do for them – solving their problems etc is harmful for them in actuality.

Reading the book made reflect on my parenting style and reminded me not to make the same mistakes that E.Way did .

Do pick up a copy of her book Coming Out Of Cage: Journey of a Tiger Mom and I’m sure you would certainly gain some insight.

Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book for review purposes. All opinions are 100% my own.