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Small Talk by Amy Julia Becker

Small Talk  book cover

Small Talk book cover

Small Talk: Learning From My Children About What Matters Most by Amy Julia Becker is a book that Amy wrote about her experiences as a mother of three.  The book is divided into three parts – Holding on, Letting go and Growing up.

In each part Amy goes recollects her thoughts on the issues of birth, failure, gratitude etc and how she had survived through the years with GOD’s help.  She shares with the readers which the struggles that she has gone through, her experiences of motherhood as compared with her childhood and how she is moving forward as a mother.

Amy uses her experience with her own kids and shows how it is possible to to live a normal and fulfilling life as a parent of a special needs child.  She weaves in passages from the bible and how GOD has worked wonders in her life.

Many time we are focused on being the “perfect” parent that we neglect the fact that the small things are the ones that matters. There is no need to be so “picture perfect” in our lives and the challenges we face are there to help nurture us.

My thoughts

While reading Amy’s book it reminded me how many things that she has described runs parallel to my own life.  The three children and how different they see life as compared to me. My strive to be a better mother and person and have a closer walk with GOD. I too try to teach the children to pray and am working to make it a regular part of our lives. Even though I have similar doubts that Amy has I’m sure that it will work out some how and GOD will help me make my spiritual journey a bit clear to me as I lead my kids on theirs.

This book will be available for sale end October at on Amazon and other main book store. Do pick up a copy if you are interested in learning how GOD has touched Amy’s life.

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Weekend Getaway: The Angsana Bintan Resort & Spa

Angsana Bintan, Bintan Island, Indonesia

Angsana Bintan, Bintan Island, Indonesia

It was a weekend of fun filled activities as we were invited for a 3 days 2 nights weekend stay at Angsana Bintan.   The boys were hyped and eagerly packed their bags when they heard that we were taking off this weekend by ferry.  We were excited to be off on our first  family adventure week on the island of Bintan.

The hotel lobby

The hotel lobby

Even though the ferry ride only approximately an hour  and the bus ride from the terminal to the hotel 15  minutes, Tiger girl was totally exhausted when we arrived.

We took the last  ferry on a Friday night  as the ferry tickets were booked out for Saturday morning and we didn’t want the kids to miss out on the activities that were lined up for them on Saturday.

Our welcome drink- Lemongrass juice

Our welcome drink- Lemongrass juice

We arrived at the hotel close to 10pm and checked into the room before proceeding to the Lotus Cafe for a late dinner.

The King size bed in the one bedroom suite

The King size bed in the one bedroom suite

We were given a one bedroom suite with an extra bed for the five of us for our stay.  The room was rather cozy and simply decorated.

The living room

The living room

The other side of the living room

The other side of the living room with the pantry area.

I love the fact that the room was big and roomy and the kids had lots of space to run around in it. The kids were happy that there was cable TV and they could watch their favourite cartoons when they were relaxing in the room.

Having fun at the recreational lounge

Having fun at the recreational lounge

The kids were wide awake after the late dinner so we checked out the Recreational lounge which was a few doors down from our room. The boys had a round of snooker and ping pong while the girl and I played connect four. I love the cozy set up of the room with bean bags on one side and sofa sets on the other. There were also other board games available to play but we didn’t manage to try them  out as it was nearly midnight when the boys decided to call it a day.

The private beach at Angsana Bintan

The private beach at Angsana Bintan

The boys having a game of Petanque with R

The boys having a game of Petanque with R

Everyone woke up bright and early as the first activity for the boys was to start at 9.15am. We took a stroll around the hotel grounds to the beach before heading to the Lotus Cafe for a buffet breakfast.

The boys spotted this pit and  had their first game of this French sport- Petanque. They had to throw the metal balls as close as possible to the marker. The person who is the nearest would be the winner.

The boys having their buffet breakfast at the Lotus Cafe

The boys having their buffet breakfast at the Lotus Cafe

The boys  had some Team building games which included a Treasure hunt and jungle hike that Saturday.  We dropped them off in the lobby and went off with Tiger girl to enjoy the rest of the morning at the pool.

A view of the hotel pool

A view of the hotel pool

Having fun at the pool

Having fun at the pool

The little girl was extremely happy to be in the water and we spent many hours swimming from one part of the pool to the other. There was colored balls available for loan and she had fun playing  with the balls with the other kids in the pool.

The lunch buffet spread

The lunch buffet spread

The kids were starving by lunchtime and hungrily tucked into the buffet spread that the hotel had before we went our separate ways again.

Tiger girl at the Kids Club

Tiger girl at the Kids Club

Tiger girl was happy to be playing in the air-con comfort that afternoon. We checked her into the Kids club where she had fun playing with the kitchen sets and other toys that they had to offer in the room. She also did some coloring and made a butterfly from recycle material which she proudly showed us when we returned to fetch her after our nature walk.

On a nature walk with the guide from the Conservation lab team

On a nature walk with the guide from the Conservation lab team

R and I were led on the Ranger trail which went through part of the forest , golf course and ended up at the beach. We were introduced to the Tongkat Ali plant and saw  Monitor lizards on the trail. It was the first time that I saw  endangered turtles in a hatchery. They will really cute. ( Will be featuring the animals in the next Wordful  Wednesday post…look out for it!!)

The boys having fun bridge building at Angsana beach

The boys having fun bridge building at Angsana beach

We spotted the kids and their camp leaders at the beach after our Nature walk. They were attempting to build a bridge using the planks to get across the moat that they had created.  I was observing them from a distance and could see that the kids in the group were all enthusiastically carrying out the instructions that they were given while working together on the project that they had been assigned.

Dinner at the Pantai Grill

Dinner at the Pantai Grill

The day ended off with a Beachside BBQ at Pantai Grill where we tasted their succulent meats and seafood that were on offer.  The setting at the beach was really romantic.

Angsana Beach

Angsana Beach

It was another day of fun in the sun on Sunday as the boys and us headed off to the beach for our activities. Tiger girl chose to stay in the kids club and enjoy playing with the toys there.

Going on the Jet Ski and ATV

Going on the Jet Ski and ATV

It was the first time that R and I rode on the Jet Ski and ATV.  The last time that we did outdoor sports as couple was during our honeymoon in Thailand 13 years ago!! It was really great to be finally able to enjoy these fun activities together.

Having the wind in my hair as I raced with R on the water was a unforgettable experience. I’m not really into these extreme sports but gamely tried them with him.  Bystanders watching us would be thinking  I was having loads of fun while in actually I was half the time trying my best not to go too fast least the jet ski flip and overturn on me.

I drew the white flag when it came to driving the ATV alone and chose to ride pillion with R instead. Even though I have been driving for the past  18 years handling an ATV was really different from a normal car.  I had to hold on tight to the metal bars while R and I followed the guide through the jungle path.  My hands were numbed at the end of the ride from holding

It was a really fun and adventurous weekend for the whole family and everyone enjoyed themselves.   The service at Angsana Bintan was top notch and we enjoyed the activities and food that they provided. Doggie boy enjoyed the Beach Archery activity the best while Monkey boy enjoyed his swim in the clear blue sea.  I love the fact that I was able to have fun as a family, a couple and also had some me time for myself that weekend taking pictures with my DSLR.

The dishes on offer at the Lotus Cafe

The dishes on offer at the Lotus Cafe

What’s New

For the month of  October the Lotus cafe at Bintan Angsana will be featuring  South East Asian specialties. Signature dishes from Thailand, Vietnam, Laos, Malaysia, Indonesia and Singapore will be available to whet your appetite.  Do give the foods a try if you intend to stay at the  Angsana  Bintan .

Angsana Bintan Resort and Spa

Jalan Teluk Bermbang, Laguna Bintan, Lagoi 29155 Bintan Resorts, Indonesia Tel:+ 62 770693111

Disclaimer:  We were invited to Angsana Bintan for a fun filled weekend and to try out their Family Adventure  Package. All opinions are 100% my own.