mama kat’s writers workshop

Writer’s Workshop : Right For Me

When I was little I dreamed about being many things when I grew up.  I wanted to be a detective solving mysteries like Nancy Drew. I loved reading about crime and mystery stories and the thrills that Sherlock Homles had solving crime and putting the baddies away. It would be cool speeding along the roads in London chasing after criminals on a BMW bike.

However as I grew up my aspiration to become a detective diminished and I decided to pursue a Degree in Business instead when I was in the university. Studying law and having to be so physically fit wasn’t really that  appealing to me anymore.  I knew with a degree in business I will be able to take on a selection of job which I may fancy.

 

Upon graduation I applied for various marketing/management jobs I realized that  they weren’t what I was looking for. I wasn’t really keen on presentations after presentations and working in an office environment felt stifling.

 

I applied to be a teacher as I felt that it was worth giving it a try.  At least I wouldn’t be working into the nights on most days and I could have some proper family life. Little did I know that it would be a decision which would change my outlook of life.

 

I got the job as an elementary school teacher and was bonded for three years to the job. Being a teacher has changed my view of how I wanted to bring up my kids.  Knowing how to teach children gave me an insight to how a child’s mind worked. I also was introduced to the various techniques that can be used to teach young kids.

 

I started liking my job as a teacher as I see how gratifying it is when the kids understand what you teach and appreciate your efforts. However the increasing workload and  administrative responsibilities made it more and more difficult for to enjoy my job. I started to become jaded and felt that I was spending too much time on other people’s children then my own. My kids needed to have time to teach them right and enjoy their childhood before they were all grown up.I still want to teach but only my own kids.

 

I never regretted the decision to enter the education industry as it has given me a better understand on how to groom my own kids. It changed my attitude towards education and made me see the important of guiding my own kids from birth to give them the best of opportunities. Being in this industry has also opened up many different doors which led me to where I am now as a WAHM.

What decision have you made that has irrevocably changed your life?

Do you regret that decision?

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Jenny MatlockMama’s Losin’ It

Writer’s Workshop: Not Quite A Baby Now

Tiger girl

Yesterday we celebrated Tiger girl’s 2nd birthday. I baked a cake and decorated it with her favourite  cartoon characters- Pororo, Hello Kitty and Angry Bird.

Time really passes so fast. My little girl is no longer a helpless baby but an active toddler with her own mind. It was only last year when we celebrated her 1st birthday and now she is 2!!

Tiger girl's 1st birthday

The world has opened up much more to her at  2 yrs old as compared to when she was 1. She is more aware of her surroundings and knows what she wants. It is not as easy to hoodwink her as compared to before as she has hone her questioning and reasoning skills a lot in  the past year.

She now knows that cartoon characters live in TV land and that real penguins do not talk or fly airplanes  like Pororo does.  She is also able to verbalize and carry out a two way conversation with me. Gone are the days where I could only carry out 1 way conversations and had to do every little thing for her. She knows does everything independently and even offers to help around the house with her elder brothers.

Baby tiger girl

Even though she still refers to herself as a “baby” at certain times her maturity and behaviour is far from one.

How have your kids changed this past year?

What has been most significant difference? 

 

Jenny MatlockMama’s Losin’ It