Last week I blogged about Ryan’s report card. This week I’ll be talking about Roy’s report card.
His teachers commented that he is able to follow the lessons carried out in class and that he is a very active and intelligent boy.
At 2yrs 6mths old Roy is able to recite his alphabets and recognize the different alphabets when asked. He is also able to read certain words that are shown on flashcards. His favourite websites are starfall.com and uptoten.com
Michele Borba’s books are simply fascinating. This particular book- Don’t give me that Attitude-24 things kids do and how to stop them is a really handy guide to all parents and teachers.
In her book she covers twenty four attitude makeovers.(Here are some out of her list which I find interesting)
Arrogant
Bad-Mannered
Bad -Tempered
Poor Loser
Lazy
Uncooperative
Insensitive
Irresponsible
Many of these attitudes are prevalent in the behaviours in the kids I face in school and in the boys.
Behaviour correction needs to start from young. Many parents/adults assume that when a child grows older he/she will “grow” out of all these bad habits and learn to be a better person. This is UNTRUE!! For a child to improve in his attitude corrective measure need to be taken to nip the habit when they are young.
Borba has listed for each BAD attitude a step-by-step approach on how parents can
convey their attitude expectation
identify the warning signs
teach ways for the child to control himself
teaching alternative behaviour or ways of expression
reinforcing the preferred behaviour.
She also has a 4 week attitude changing plan which parent and child can go through towards achieving the desired results. I am intending to try it out with some of my school kids so that it would make the learning environment better for all in class.