Being a mother has really brought a lot of changes to my life. It has brought a different perspective in life and my focus has changed from a personal focus to a more family oriented focus.
Here is a list of 10 things what Motherhood has done to me.
I’m more patient especially towards the kids. Even though I do get short tempered toward the boys when they blatantly refuse to follow instructions overall I feel that I’m more tolerant.
I’m able to multi-task better. I need to plan my daily schedule so that I’m able to use my time most efficiently. So far it has been quite on target for me coping with the household, kids and blogging.
I’m not bothered about chasing the corporate ladder now . I rather invest my energies in educating and caring for the kids.
I’m able to give unconditional love to my family members.
I’m able to drop everything at an instant to attend to my child who needs me.
I have gave up precious sleep so that the kids and hb can get the attention that they need.
I’ve become more decisive in what I want and what I accept for myself and my family.
Material things and fashion are not as important to me as love and time spend with the family.
I’m consciously looking out for things which could benefit the kids and place their interest ahead of my own.
I’m making more friends with mummies who have kids similar age to mine and am enjoying their company tremendously.
Today we are having a guest post on a subject close to my heart- Breastfeeding. I personally do breastfeed my children and still continue breastfeeding my 20 mth old girl in public with a nursing shawl.
Let’s read what Anne have to say about breastfeeding.
If you’re a one of those close-minded breastfeeding advocates who believe people should be free to feed their children anywhere, anytime, and in any way…
You’re NOT the audience I want, so scram.
Harsh?
I have to be, and I’ll tell you why.
I’m all for breastfeeding – I’m an advocate as well.
A lot of studies and articles about the benefits of breastmilk have passed my eyes so I’d be the first to say that if moms are able to give their babies this type of milk, even for a few months, go.
No one’s disputing the value of this super milk. Not to mention the mother-child bonding it fosters.
However, there is the issue of whether breastfeeding should be done in public or not – bare or covered.
There are those who are adamant about moms having the choice to feed their babies anywhere, anytime and in any way. (Like I said above)
After all, they have to provide nutrition to their babies, and up to this point I agree.
I even respect their views.
But at the same time, they have to respect people who are uncomfortable at the sight of bare breasts.
Now, per se, there is nothing wrong with breasts. It’s a body part just the same as your hands and feet, But it’s a private body part.
Therefore, it makes me cringe when I see them out in public. And I’m not the only one.
Hold your horses…
I’m not saying that bare-breasted breastfeeding moms should have the discomfort of hiding in a corner while feeding just so folks like me can be comfortable.
Not at all.
But there are things such as covers.
Easy, right?
It only takes a few seconds to pack and unfold before using, then, re-fold and re-pack after using.
If you’re one of those folks who was told to scram earlier but didn’t…
We live in an age where people are dressed wherever they go. Therefore, private parts are meant to be kept, well.. private.
In one post which touched on this subject too, a lady commented that she felt as if some people wanted to force others to be okay with baring breasts while breastfeeding.
It’s just not the way society works – unless you’re part of a cultural minority that’s down with upper body nudity. No problem there.
But society isn’t.
So, here’s the thing:
For me, it’s okay to breastfeed in public – did so myself.
But please, cover up.
It’s really not difficult thing to do.
Got something on your mind? Leave a comment but remember to keep it clean! 🙂
Author bio: Anne Mercado is a writer who is fascinated with psychology and horror stories. Luckily, you won’t find the latter when she writes on her parenting blog, but she’s seriously considering sharing spooky tales in her personal blog. Who knows, maybe she will!
