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Tomorrow Comes

Tommorrow Come   by Donna Mebane

Tommorrow Come by Donna Mebane

Tomorrow Comes by Donna Mebane is  unlike any novels that I have read before. It is  based on Donna’s personal experience and reflections of the death of her 19 yr old daughter Emma.

In her debut novel, Donna shares what it was like for the family when Emily Mebane, a well-liked popular teenager, suddenly died in her sleep.  The bright spark in her life was suddenly snuffed out and Donna’s world crumbles to pieces as she struggled to deal with this grave loss.

Wrote with the perception of what it must be for Emma living in the afterlife, Donna brings the reader through the transitional period that she and her family had to go through coping with grieving and changes after Emma’s death.

In this book about Emma, Donna brings the readers through the actual facts of the event which happened back in 2011 when Emma died and mixes it up with fiction when she mentions about Emma’s after life.

Donna comes to term with her own grief through penning down what she things her daughter is experiencing in the afterlife. She talks about how Emma is  reunited with her grandparents and great grandparents who  help in her transition in living in this new “life” of hers.

Over on the other side Emma is still able to keep in touch with her BEFORE life through reading  the messages left on her Facebook wall. She still lives in the town which  nearly identical to the one she lived in Geneva The differences are that  food is free , people can magically pop up unexpectedly and disappear.

The dead have  the capability of  morphing into other creatures depending on the circumstances they are in and Emma is constantly learning more about her “magical” abilities day by day.

My thoughts

I found it interesting that Donna conceives the afterlife as a place which is  very similar to the world that we live in. The places and towns are the same just that the people “living” in it are different.

One can still  go on living and doing the things that they were doing before they were dead so there is practically not much difference between the two lives.

It would be nice to have the familiarity of our previous life in our after life however no one can be certain about it.

One thing that I disagree with Donna  portrayal is that GOD is not existent even in church in the afterlife. I find this perception disturbing as a Christian I belief that I will be able to see GOD in the afterlife and what better place to feel his presence then in church itself?

I also do not get the part about how long dead singers like Elvis can suddenly pop up and perform in the basement of a  close door and by invitation only party.  I find this concept really confusing.

In all I find that it is a really touching story on how one deals with moving on after the passing of a love one. It was certainly great how the  family has bonded together honoring the memories of Emma.

Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book for review purposes. All opinions are 100% my own. This post has affiliate links.

Writer’s Workshop: One Word- Change

One Word- Change

One Word- Change

 

2015 is the year of CHANGE for me. I’m dedicating this year to doing a massive overhaul in the different areas of my life.

I have been procrastinating for too long and it is time for some action.  It is time for a revamp- Physically, Mentally and Spiritually.

I’m going all out to make it work this time by systematically following through my to-do list for each area that I will be working on.

Physical  Change

– Get into better shape and ideal weight
(I’ve already stated this in my 2015 resolutions)

– Revamp my wardrobe and dressing

– Get the kids/ family to participate in more outdoor and physical sports.

– Sleep earlier each day and try to get better quality sleep with the help of essential oils.

– De -cluttering every area of the house to reduce physical clutter and only to keep items that are really of use to the family.

Mental Change

– To sharpen my mind by reading up  and learning about brain development/ NLP/ Positive parenting

– To develop a different mindset and work towards maximizing   the kids and my academic potential

– To remove all toxicity around me be it in the form of a person or thought.  Reduce negative thoughts, actions and presumptions.

Spiritual Change

– To devote more time to prayer and mediation

– Cultivate a spirit of gratitude in the family

What is your word for 2015?

 

Jenny Matlock

Mama’s Losin’ It