love

You and Me Equals Us

Relationships are  connections between people. It maybe due to blood or marriage or emotions that we have for one another.

A bonding that one person has for another which has different meaning for each individual.

Relationships are essential for survival in the world. No man is an island and we do need to interact with different people on different levels every single day.

The type of relationships that you are into affects your moods and your ultimately your outlook of life.

Being in  healthy relationships will give you fuel for maximizing your growth and potential. You feel secure and am confident that your friends or love ones would give you all the support that you need. You would have a positive outlook on live and be motivated to do your best.

If you were in a toxic relationship you would see your energy levels being depleted rapidly. You feel dejected and have a chance to lapse into depression as you are not supported by the ones that you feel are dear to you. You feel that you are being manipulated by others and are engulfed by constant negativity.  Everything look bleak and you feel trapped.

Doggie boy, Tiger girl and Me

Doggie boy, Tiger girl and Me

This month I am starting a new series on the blog entitled

You  & Me = Us

I will be sharing with you my personal experience with the different relationships that I am in as a mother, daughter,  granddaughter, spouse and friend.   The joys and anguish that I have gone through and how I have and am still am working on the relationships that I cherish.

These connections that I have with others and how they shaped my believes and attitude so far will all be jotted down as I bare all.

I will be touching on relationships as a whole and how I am/intend on building a closer relationship with both my kids and spouse  in detail as this series progresses.

Post in this series.

1)  You and Me Equals US ( An Introduction)

2) You and Me- Where Do We Begin?

3)You and Me- Love (Part One)

4) You and Me- Love (Part Two)

5) You and Me- Anger and Frustration

6) You and Me- Talking about GOD

7) You and Me- Let’s Talk about Money

8) You and Me- What Now?

10 Ways I Show my Love to my Kids

Tiger girl

Tiger girl smiling

Love is what makes the world go round. It is strong feeling of affection or a great interest/pleasure in something.

Without Love one may be nursing feeling of loneliness, bitterness or other negative feelings. This will eat into our core and turn ourselves into a nasty person. I’m sure that one wouldn’t want to end up as such a person.

Even though we do need our individual space at time we do crave for the attention and presence of others around us to dote on us.

Here are some ways that I show my love to my kids

1. I spend time with them and do the activities that they like together with them.

2. Shower them with hugs and kisses

3. Take time to explain to them and show them how to do things when they do not know how to or make a mistake.

4. Understand their needs and wants and let them know how important they are to me.

5. Respect their views and opinions.

6. Let them win however not all the time.

7. Give them your full attention when they are around.

8.  Make them laugh and laugh with them.

9. I make home a fun place to be.

10.  We cook and clean together.

How do you show your love to your kids?